The last little bit of January and the beginning of February have been anything but regular – snow and ice have thrown our schedules into disarray, canceling plans, constricting work time, harrying normal rhythms. But, as is so often the case, these challenges have come with obvious bright sides: hours of sledding, neighbor connection, cozy domino games, and extra chapters of Goblet of Fire. I know enough to expect more glimmers and more challenges as we finish out the month – but maybe with a little less wild weather :)
On my calendar: — The Olympics! I anticipate having it on in the background for much of the month and turning up the volume when figure skating is on. I’m especially excited to watch this guy. (gift link!) — Valentine’s Day! It’s on a Saturday, but I’m planning to welcome the kids home from school the day before with a little surprise tea spread laid out on the table (likely store-bought, no shame there). Any excuse to use all those Southern Weddings cake stands ;) And the mailbox is still going strong! — My birthday! I’ll be coming off a weekday work trip to Texas and so want to give some thought as to how I can help it feel special and restful amidst the chaos of travel and returning home.
What I’m loving right now: — You’ve probably seen me mention jump roping a few times recently. I am attempting to get into it as a cardio option, and it’s been fun to do it alongside the kids! We have this rope for me, this rope for June, this rope for Shep, and this rope for double dutch. — I shared these tiny gold hoop earrings on my Christmas wish list and ended up getting them for myself after trying them on in person at the Gorjana store in California. I LOVE THEM. I didn’t think anything could replace my beloved pearl studs (which I still wear!) but these just look so good with everything. — Some friends recommended the podcast Dogood Detectives and our kids are obsessed. We listened to every episode on a long drive recently and all three were locked in.
As a reminder, you can find allll the things I’ve loved over the last few years neatly organized right here!
What you’re loving right now:
This is where I highlight a few items here that have been popular in the last month with fellow readers, based on my analytics. Here’s hoping this will help you find something you’ll love!
— This navy sweater jacket, my new favorite thing to wear. Sometimes I’ll layer a white tee underneath, but it can also be worn as-is, buttoned up. Ladylike but also somehow casual enough for weekday mom life? — This eucalyptus + rosemary counter spray that continues to bring us all joy. — The Amazing Generation, once again. No surprise, it’s a no. 1 NYT bestseller (YAY!!!). — These very fun, very colorful shadow text notepads. I love a new notepad to start off the year. — My beloved window candles. They’re a great weight and the dusk-to-dawn sensor works perfectly. Ours are still up in every window even though John thinks I’m a loon :)
What I read in January: — My Oxford Year| Good not great. My biggest takeaway was that I’d like to visit Oxford! — Wild Dark Shore | Now this one – wow. “A novel of breathtaking twists, dizzying beauty, and ferocious love, Wild Dark Shore is about the impossible choices we make to protect the people we love, even as the world around us disappears.” I will be thinking about these characters – each so exquisitely drawn, including the landscape, which seems a character of its own – for quite some time. — Romney: A Reckoning | This book which, among other things, is a walk through the last two decades of politics, was moving and so, so sad.
Revisiting my January goals: Finalize details and selections for our master bathroom and built-in projects (Made a lot of progress here! I have a meeting this week to make a few final decisions.) Set up our 2026 budget (Done! We are trying out Monarch Money. It has been a learning curve, but I am committed to giving it a fair shake.) Print 2024 + 2025 Instagram photos and photos for our Christmas album Finalize the itinerary for June’s tenth birthday trip (A tiny bit of progress but mostly rolling over into February) Brainstorm my affirmations and phrases for each family member Learn all of the first jump rope routine (Learned half!) Register Annie for kindergarten Buy new glasses Attend to the first clutter spot: the piles in our bedroom Finish going through my phone screenshots (Some progress but not done yet.)
February goals: — Finalize the itinerary for June’s tenth birthday trip — Finish learning the jump rope routine — Diligently complete daily exercises to help with my knee pain — Record June’s birthday interview — Finish going through my phone screenshots — Attend to February’s clutter spot: our “library” on the first floor — Enjoy celebrating my birthday — Prepare well for my very first TCF podcast interview. I AM TERRIFIED. I have been practicing answering questions with John on our daily walks and it is so easy to feel discouraged. I prefer to write rather than talk, you know? I am believing I can get better with practice, however, so practice, I shall.
Reading aloud to my children continues to be one of the best parts of motherhood for me. There’s just something so peaceful, so connected, so all-is-right-with-the-world about snuggling up together — everyone freshly pajama-ed, all quarrels postponed, lamplight low — to read another chapter.
In the midst of a full life, I have found that the very best way to make time for reading together is to choose books that we can’t wait to return to each night — books that make us start dinner prep on time, work together to clear the table, bathe efficiently, and eagerly bounce onto whatever bed we’re gathering on. To help with this, I put in some effort each year to plan out of titles for the months ahead. (Just like with my own reading list!) We’ll almost certainly deviate from this plan, but it’s a good place to start. In case it inspires your own year of reading…
Quarter 1 | January, February, and March
The first three months of the year tend to be some of our best for readalouds: our schedule is quieter, and we’re (I’m) fired up from yearly planning. Knowing that June would want to start the fourth Harry Potter as soon as she received it for her early-January birthday, I wedged in a shorter-but-beloved favorite from my childhood right at the beginning. (Both kids loved it.) I’m currently deep into the fourth HP while John reads Prince Caspian to Shep (he hadn’t joined readaloud when John and June read it the first time). From there, John will read the final Narnia book and then I’ll crack open the first in the Wingfeather Saga, which June has been desperate to read. (All her friends have read it, apparently, which delights me no end.)
Next we’ll return to another beloved series we’re making our way through. Shep hasn’t read the first three, but they’re easy to pick up midway. From there, we’ll read one of my favorite books of all time, with attendant nerves that they’ll enjoy it as much as I do. We’ll round things out with a classic and the second book in the Wingfeather series. This quarter is a little “girl heavy,” but Shep continuously surprises me by how much he loves even books I’m unsure about. (For example, he loved Anne of Green Gables last year.)
When June heads to summer camp, Shep and I will dig into Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets. (I don’t know what we’ll do when Shep goes to camp, too, but right now June’s two-week absence aligns well with his birthday!) John will read them the third Wingfeather before Annie joins read aloud upon her entrance into kindergarten (!). With the newest member of our crew, we’ll circle back around to where we started our readaloud journey: with the first book in the Little House series (it’s been four years since June read them) and with Charlotte’s Web, a book I think every child should have read to them at least once.
Between travel, holidays, and activities, these months are notoriously slow for readalouds around here. Realistically, I’m hoping to fit in just three: a beloved classic from my childhood, the next Little House, and the final Wingfeather installment. (Not sure what I’m going to do about the fact that Annie will have only joined for number four, but we’ll cross that bridge when we come to it. Maybe she’ll sit that one out and she and I will catch up on something else?)
We are also reading Mrs. Frisby and the Rats of NIMH and Island of the Blue Dolphins with June’s school book club! For Shep’s, I plan to start with Mr. Popper’s Penguins and The Mouse and the Motorcycle in the fall.
This year’s list skews heavily classic, and there are so many more books I wish we could squeeze in! First up if we have more time, or for next year: Number the Stars, A Place to Hang the Moon, All Thirteen, and Because of Winn Dixie.
Friends, I’d love to hear: What books have you enjoyed reading with your kids recently? What books would you be most excited to introduce your kids to?
Very happy to share my 2026 reading list! If you’re newer here, this is the very lowest-key of book clubs: I consider it a delightful exercise in thoughtfully planning my reading a year at a time (12 fiction, 12 non-fiction), and though I always read more than this, and I’m often at the whim of my library holds, it’s helpful to know where to turn when I’m ready for a new book!
Without further ado…
January: Little Women | A classic I’ve been meaning to read for years! It was on last year’s list and I didn’t get to it, so I’m putting it first this year :) June has already read the abridged version and is eager to watch the movie together once I finish. Meet Me in the Middle | I listened to the mother-daughter author pair on a podcast episode and enjoyed what they had to say. Thinking this might provide some good fodder for our upcoming tenth birthday getaway.
February: Beartown | Backman’s book about a small town and its hockey team has been recommended to me for years and years. February seems like the right (chilly!) month to dive in. The Art of Spending Money | So happy to have a new Morgan Housel book to enjoy! John and I are planning to read this together for a little two-person book club :)
March: Theo of Golden | There are two books that were read by almost everyone in Articles Club last year, and this is one of them. Must hop on the bandwagon! Parenting Ahead | This is a very under-the-radar parenting book, but it’s speaking my language: helping parents of younger children build a foundation for their family — based on Biblical principles — for the teen years to come. I’m also intrigued to read it for professional reasons, as it sounds similar to what I try to do at The Connected Family (just with a tech focus).
April: The Unselected Journals of Emma M. Lion, Volume I | I’m curious how much traction this series is getting in the wider world, because in my bubble, seemingly everyone is reading it. The way people describe it reminds me a bit of the Mitford series; I’m looking forward to a cozy, literary read! The Screwtape Letters | A clever and illuminating C.S. Lewis classic, a series of letters to a young devil and back again. I read it several years ago but am ready for a re-read.
May: The Correspondent | Continuing the epistolary theme, this is the second book that has been making the rounds of Articles Club. I absolutely love the story of this book’s rise to prominence – slow and steady word of mouth that just caught fire – and the author’s story, too. (A fellow NC gal!) The Unthinkable | While this might be a depressing read, there’s also the potential for it to be fascinating and practical: “Amanda Ripley, an award-winning journalist who has covered some of the most devastating disasters of our age, set out to discover what lies beyond fear and speculation. In this magnificent work of investigative journalism, Ripley retraces the human response to some of history’s epic disasters” and emerges with practical advice as well as unforgettable stories. Reading along with Janssen’s book club.
June: Isola | A December release that came highly recommended by Whitney. I am so grateful for all her kid book picks and feel sure I’ll love this one, too. “An orphaned heiress is abandoned on a small island. As the weather turns, blanketing the island in ice, she discovers a faith she’d never before needed. Inspired by the real life of a sixteenth-century heroine, Isola is the timeless story of a woman fighting for survival.” I Just Wish I Had a Bigger Kitchen | I preordered this one to support Kate but haven’t read it yet!
July: Covenant of Water | This one has been on my TBR list for quite some time but Laura Wifler’s review pushed me over the edge: “On the cover there is an endorsement that says this book is, ‘a pleasure to read,’ and honestly, that about sums it up. It’s incredible. The whole time I keep thinking—I can’t believe this is a real book. Not because it was such. a. page. turner. (though it often was) but because it was so well built and thought out. It’s hard to describe, but if you want a book that moves you in all the best ways, read this.” Will do! Writing Creativity and Soul | I think Sue Monk Kidd is a terrifically talented writer and I am excited to read her new book “on the mysteries, frustrations, and triumphs of being a writer – an instructive guide to awakening the soul.”
August: The Will of the Many| My sister recommended this new fantasy series, comparing it to Red Rising. Say no more! Hunting the Falcon | I gifted my Dad this “exhilarating feat of research and analysis” into the life of Henry VIII and Anne Boleyn a few years ago. It’s hefty, but he quickly dispatched it and put it back on my shelf, thinking I would enjoy it, too. This time period has fascinated me since I read Philippa Gregory as a teenager (bet I’m not the only one!); I’m looking forward to finally picking it up and reading it myself.
September: The Glassmaker | In putting together this year’s list I tried to get real with my TBR Note. There are books that have literally been on there for a decade and I just haven’t reached for them – maybe time to let them go? I tried to delete with abandon but this one, a Tracy Chevalier historical novel from last year, made the cut. Hold Me Tight | I always try to read a marriage book in the month of our wedding anniversary. This one came highly recommended by Janssen.
October: The Extraordinary Life of Sam Hell | I believe this was recommended by one of you on a past post! I revisited it in my TBR purge and am intrigued enough to add it to the list :) Wild Things: The Joy of Reading Children’s Literature as an Adult | “Bruce Handy revisits the classics of American childhood, from fairy tales to The Very Hungry Caterpillar, and explores the backstories of their creators, using context and biography to understand how some of the most insightful, creative, and witty authors and illustrators of their times created their often deeply personal masterpieces.” Here for it.
November: The Postcard | This was one of Claire’s favorite reads from 2025 and her description was intriguing enough to get it on my list: “This novel, like, changed my brain chemistry. It’s actually a fictionalized version of a real event, when Berest received a postcard with nothing written on it but the names of four family members who had died in a concentration camp. As she tries to find out who sent the postcard (real), you’re also taken up with her family’s story of being French Jews in World War 2 (fictionalized). Without a doubt my favorite historical fiction read this year, and that’s a long list as it’s my preferred genre.” Small Things Like These | “A deeply affecting story of hope, quiet heroism, and empathy from one of our most critically lauded and iconic writers.” It is, indeed, a small book, ideal for a busy month.
December: Still Life | I have many friends who love the Inspector Gamache series, and I’m excited to join them in their enthusiasm! The Library Book | “Weaving her lifelong love of books and reading into an investigation of a disastrous LA Public Library fire that consumed more than 400,000 books, award-winning reporter Susan Orlean delivers a mesmerizing and uniquely compelling book that manages to tell the broader story of libraries and librarians in a way that has never been done before.”
I’d love to hear: Have you read any of these books? Would you like to read any alongside me in 2026? Let’s chat! (And our 2026 readaloud plan is up next!)
This, below, is one of my new favorite views. There’s something about our larger, lower kitchen island (peninsula?) that draws the kids in, and I reliably field one, if not two or three, requests for an assignment while cooking dinner each night. On this evening, Annie was trimming green beans while Shep minced garlic and I pulled together the rest of the chicken piccata meatballs. (Shep was so proud of himself for learning a new task and using a “big knife” that he had me take a video to show John later.) More of this in January, please.
On my calendar: — June’s tenth birthday. I love her so. — At least five meals with friends, at our home or theirs. Starting strong with our hospitality goal despite raging illness on the East Coast. — Seeing the Charlotte Hornets play. This was John’s big Christmas gift; we’re both excited to attend our first NBA game and see Duke favorite Kon Knueppel in action.
What I’m loving right now: — We saw David in theatres with friends and loved it! The kids have been asking to listen to the soundtrack ever since. — We bought our first smart plug after realizing it was nearly impossible to plug and unplug our Christmas tree lights in our new set-up and — wow. Saying “Alexa, please turn off the tree lights” feels like magic. My kind of technology :) — John gave me this navy sweater jacket for Christmas and it’s my new favorite thing to wear. Sometimes I’ll layer a white tee underneath, but it can also be worn as-is, buttoned up. Ladylike but also somehow casual enough for weekday mom life?
As a reminder, you can find allll the things I’ve loved over the last few years neatly organized right here!
What you’re loving right now:
This is where I highlight a few items here that have been popular in the last month with fellow readers, based on my analytics. Here’s hoping this will help you find something you’ll love!
— Once again the Brick was far and away the bestseller of everything I shared last month! I am so, so grateful that so many of you took the leap and feel confident you won’t regret it. If you need a refresher on what the Brick is, I’ve got you. Get 10% off with this link! — I feel like we all must be wearing matching undergarments at this point?! The Eby Relief bra has been a hit with friends of all shapes and sizes and is what I exclusively wear right now. — This eucalyptus + rosemary counter spray continues to bring all of us joy. — The Amazing Generation. No surprise, it’s a no. 1 NYT bestseller (YAY!!!). — My favorite new Christmas decoration, our beloved window candles! They’re a great weight and the dusk-to-dawn sensor works perfectly. I plan to keep mine up until my birthday, at the end of February!
What I read in December: — Code Name Helene | World War II books can feel a dime a dozen (and rightly so), but I hadn’t read in this genre for a bit and Code Name Helene was a great return. I love that Ariel Lawhon uses her books to elevate the stories of incredible real women from history and Nancy Wake, a daring socialite spy, is no exception. (I do think I preferred The Frozen River just a bit because of its less-common time period!) — Confronting Christianity | Combining research, personal stories, and careful biblical study, Rebecca McLaughlin’s apologetics offering explores 12 of the questions that keep people from considering faith in Christ. As Christians, we are meant to “be prepared to give a defense to explain the hope that we have” and I do think this book helped me to do that. — Real Americans | This novel, an “exhilarating exploration of American identity” that spans three generations, reminded me of one of my favorite novels from last year, Tomorrow and Tomorrow and Tomorrow. If you enjoy twisting narratives that expose a bit more with each loop, this one’s for you.
Reading list for 2026 coming very soon!
Revisiting my December goals: Edit Sheptember, Volume 7 (No! Very bummed about this but I am forging on. I have now chosen a song, which is often the hardest part!) Finish the kids’ book ornaments Send care packages to our college gals Finalize plans for June’s tenth birthday Make progress on a big birthday project for June Carry out our gifting plans with joy Prepare well in advance for our post-Christmas travel, so that Christmas Eve and Day can be languorous and peaceful Execute our end-of-year generosity plans Savor the Christmas season
January goals: — Finalize details and selections for our master bathroom and built-in projects — Set up our 2026 budget. We are considering doing something other than the Google Doc set up we’ve used for the last 16 years – will report back if we like it! — Print 2024 + 2025 Instagram photos and photos for our Christmas album — Finalize the itinerary for June’s tenth birthday trip — Brainstorm my affirmations and phrases for each family member — Learn all of the first jump rope routine — Register Annie for kindergarten — Buy new glasses — Attend to the first clutter spot: the piles in our bedroom — Finish going through my phone screenshots. I kept up with this daily practice for most of the year but dropped off in the last quarter; I want to finish strong because it was so helpful!
